If when you make love, your partner DOESN’T KISS YOU, it’s because…
…it’s not just about lips or the heat of skin, not really.
It’s about presence.
It’s about connection.
And sometimes — maybe more often than we want to admit — it’s about distance.
Because when you’re lying there, body to body, soul cracked wide open in a moment that should feel like the safest place on earth… and their lips never find yours? That silence speaks.
It says:
“I am here, but not fully.”
“I want you, but I’m afraid to show it.”
“I crave your body, but not your truth.”
Kissing is sacred.
It’s the most primal and the most tender thing two people can do at once. It’s an invitation — not just to the bed, but to the heart. And when that invitation is left unopened, it means something.
Maybe they’ve learned to make love in a way that doesn’t mean love.
Maybe someone taught them that desire is separate from emotion.
That kissing is too soft. Too sentimental. Too real.
Because in a kiss, you can’t hide. In a kiss, the soul shows itself.
And maybe they don’t know how to be seen.
Because a kiss — a real kiss — is vulnerability in motion. It’s not just foreplay, not just a step in a routine. It’s a language. A conversation. And when that conversation is missing, what’s left is hollow.
It’s like reading a love letter with the most important sentence torn out.
You start to notice the space between you.
